David Corbett
But a few months or years into retirement, many people find the
grass isn't greener on the other side.
The AARP reports that 50% of retirees
are bored. And the average retiree watches 47 hr of TV a week. The oldest
baby boomers are turning 60, meaning
nearly 80 million Americans are getting
ready to live longer with good health,
but without purpose.
One way to make this stage of life
meaningful is to adopt a life-planning
model called a life portfolio. It's a
"portfolio" because, like a collection of
stocks and bonds, it is an integrated
mix of personal holdings or assets. But
this one covers the gifts, values,
passions, and pursuits that make you
who you are.
How do you get a life portfolio? Here
are five ways to begin:
1. Work for pay or passion, but on
your own terms. You've spent your
career working for others, and hopefully,
you've enjoyed the work. But now you
have the opportunity to love what you do. You might get paid monetarily for it,
or the payoff might be that you
experience bliss. But you've waited for
this chance your whole life and now,
finally, the possibility is open to you.
2. Learn something and grow
spiritually. You may have missed the
opportunity to get a degree, or an
advanced degree, while you were
establishing your career and rising
through the ranks. Or you may have
had to say no to your inner voice that
wanted to connect with nature, pray, or
meditate more often. Well, now you
have the time that you always used as
an excuse. You can get that degree (or
just take classes in whatever strikes
your fancy). You can hike, or go to your
house of worship, or explore your
connection to the universe in whatever
ways feel right to you — and you don't
have to wait for vacation time to do it.
3. Enjoy recreation or downtime. If
you've always wanted to take more time
for yourself, you finally can. Activities
that you always had to cram into your
two or three-week vacation can now
become ways in which to occupy much
of your time. Whether you want to
improve your golf game, become conversant in current movies and other
aspects of pop culture, or travel to all the
places you've never been — now is the
time to finally indulge yourself. There's
nothing to stop you from turning down
time into your best-ever time.
4. Connect with family and friends. Sure, you've always loved your family
and valued your friendships. But you've
never had enough time to build those
relationships, because you were so
busy with your career track. The good
news is that it's never too late to have
the relationships you've always
dreamed of. Now that you have the time
to devote to your family and friends,
you can finally strengthen those bonds
and give the most important people in
your life the attention they deserve —
and that you deserve to give them.
5. Give back. If you've spent your
whole career accumulating wealth and
material possessions, you're not alone.
You've had bills to pay, and perhaps
you've had children and grandchildren
to support. But now that you've made it
to retirement, you can take the pressure
off yourself. You don't have to acquire
more wealth. Your kids can take care of
themselves, and your grandchildren
have their parents to rely on for
support. You can use your money, time, and energies in ways that please
you. Do you want to contribute money
to your community, house of worship,
or an organization that matters to you?
It's done — if that's your choice.
Building a life portfolio is all about
making choices. It's never too soon to
create one. All of this takes planning, of
course, and a life portfolio is indeed a
strategic plan. It has short and long-term goals to keep us on track and set
realistic expectations.
Because one can begin to weave a
life portfolio as early as one's twenties,
even as careers are pursued, and
because it may last 30 or 40 more years
afterward, a portfolio can actually have
more impact in shaping adulthood than
a career. Careers, in short, have a shelf
life; portfolios can be timeless. Start
yours today.
RETIREMENT A LONG WAY OFF? TIPS FOR STARTING A BALANCED LIFE EARLY
Life portfolios are really about reaching a balanced life, which involves career as
well as noncareer activities. And there's no reason to wait until your 50s to start
planning. To find out how to weave a portfolio lifestyle into any stage of a career,
visit Vicki's blog at forums.machinedesign.com. Click on the post "Planning for your
antiretirement."
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David D. Corbett is the founder of New Directions Inc., in Boston, and
author of Portfolio Life: The New Path to Work, Purpose, and Passion
After 50, published by Jossey-Bass. Visit www.portfoliolifebook.com or
www.newdirections.com.